“I have lost someone whom i loved as a brother, as a lover, as a closest friend, as a remarkable human being. We have also lost one of the best damn actor we will ever see.”- Jack Lemon
No one heals themselves by wounding another. No matter what at least once in your life someone will hurt you, rip you into pieces and wont even bother to watch where the pieces land. Through the breakdown you will learn more about yourself, more about life. No matter what you will grow from it and conquer yourself. When someone hurts you, think of them as a sand paper. They may scratch and hurt but in the end, you will end up polished. The pain you have been feeling can not be compared to the joy that is coming your way. Life is too short to fight or to regret the past. Count your blessings and move out with your head held high. Let it serve you as an opportunity to be better than what you were before. Do not ask yourself why someone keeps hurting you. Ask yourself why you are allowing them to do so? You will be able to rebuilt yourself. Time in itself is a best healer. People were created to be loved. Things were created to be used. The reason why the world is in chaos is because things are being loved and people are being used. It only takes a few seconds to hurt someone, but it takes years to repair the damage. Cherish the hearts that love you. You never lose by loving, you lose by holding back. Life is short, so make it worthwhile. Do not spend your time grieving, just spend it with a smile.